If you’ve got Venus or Mars chilling in Pisces or anything Neptune-infused, you might find yourself swept away by the melodies of music and the tales spun in films. It’s almost like a cosmic blessing… or a curse, depending on how you look at it! This article serves as a follow-up to my musings on Shack Man Revisited, inspired by a keen comment from Tracy that struck a chord: “Interesting that you figured out he was playing out his musical fantasy — too bad he didn’t pick a better ‘record’.” It got my wheels turning!

Years ago, while jamming to Zucchero with my daughter—a precociously savvy eleven-year-old—I stressed the importance of the messages we let resonate with us. “Listen to him,” I implored. “That’s a guy who genuinely appreciates women. Remember this!” While she laughed, I knew she absorbed the essence of that moment. Generally, I curate my music choices to reflect positivity in relationships; I sidestep the tunes that might weigh me down or cloud my mind. With the right music, subconsciously, we start manifesting the vibes we tune into.

Tracy’s insight highlights a crucial point: when considering a new relationship, the mental playlists of our partners can say a lot about their inner world. Had I plugged into the narrative of the Shack Man album, I might have dodged that particular star-crossed saga! Authenticity is key, especially if you want to sidestep the potholes of pain in love. After all, if you were cruising through life, would you bank on a partner jiving to the sad tunes of “he done me wrong”?

So, darling, let’s explore the impact of music on our lives and relationships. Are you tuning in to the right frequency? LEARN MORE.

If you have Venus or Mars in Pisces or otherwise Neptune-flavored, you’re bound to be incredibly sensitive and influenced by music and movies.  This post is a follow on to: Shack Man Revisited: Life In Stereo.

It’s inspired by Tracy’s comment: “Interesting that you figured out he was playing out his musical fantasy ~ to bad he didn’t pick a better ‘record’”.

Years ago, I was listening to, Zucchero, with my daughter.  She was about eleven years old, but sophisticated.

“Listen to him,” I said. “That’s a man who loves women. Pay attention to this. Don’t ever get with a man who doesn’t like women, because hey! You are one!”  She laughed, but she heard me.

Generally, the music I choose to listen to is positive in regard to relationships. I hear the other, but I don’t internalize it. I certainly don’t bring it home with me.

It’s harder to avoid these days but it’s worth the trouble to do. The messages enter your subconscious and you easily manifest that which you have heard, over and over and over again.

Tracy’s comment makes it clear, if you’re getting involved with someone it’s probably worth noting what they put in their head.  Had I evaluated the album in the Shack Man case, I’d have known it the storyline was not for me. This was not because it was negative towards women, but because the persona was contrived to be “commercial”.  I’m looking for authenticity.

If I were a man and a women was listening to “he done me wrong” or “I slashed up his car”, music, I’d run for the hills.  If you want be happy in partnership, find someone who wants what you want. Also, someone who has set themselves up for success.

It’s just very hard to have a relationship that doesn’t end in pain, if you’ve never heard of such a thing!

Are you aware of the impact of music in your life?