In a world overflowing with curated images and polished personas, it feels like there’s an endless orchestra playing a tune meant to coax us down the path of less integrity—like a bad rom-com where you know the couple should not end up together. Day in and day out, our senses are bombarded with snippets of behavior that normalize the unspeakable: lying, cheating, and all the small crimes that chip away at our humanity. Aren’t we all just a little tired of it?
I’m not here to don the cloak of moral authority or dish out judgments from on high. Each of us has a pencil in hand to draw our own lines, but when the world outside constantly whispers—no, shouts—that it’s okay to be “mid,” it’s not just disheartening; it’s downright dangerous. Embracing anything less than authentic selves leaves us vulnerable. So how can we stay grounded in our true essences amid all this noise?
If you’ve ever felt the pang of discrepancy between a kind word and the body language that hints otherwise, you’re not alone. Deep down, our internal compass is always at work, signaling what’s genuine—all while a barrage of outside influences pushes us toward a façade. The responsibilities we juggle—whether it’s our own kids or simply navigating relationships—make this a conversation worth having.
Join me as I dive deeper into this issue, exploring how maintaining authenticity might just be the key to meaningful connections in a world full of surface-level appearances. Ready to challenge the programming we’ve been fed? Buckle up, and let’s have some fun finding our way back to who we really are! LEARN MORE.
There’s a lot of effort put into seducing people to behave in ways just not “right”, at a core level for human soul. All day, every day, we’re shown instances of people doing things; designed to normalize negative behavior as well as encourage it.
I’m not talking about murder sprees. I’m talking about the small things, lie, cheat and steal? Glorifying things that a person should not be doing, such as stalking a person, humiliating a person, disrespect for people on the job, disrespect for a person’s business – whatever. Kids, disrespecting their parents, their teachers or the elderly. Writers, selling their souls for clicks.
I’m not trying to be the moral authority. Each individual must decide for him/herself where the lines go, but I do think we are strongly pulled in the wrong direction ’round the clock, by outside forces.
For example, it pains me, greatly, to hear people called, “mid”. I don’t think anyone is “mid”. But this label sells like crazy. Best buy x, y, and z, or you will be “mid”. Best get some surgery too… you get the idea. Don’t want to be “mid”!
This is such a mistake. 20 years ago I did videos on this. Nothing has changed. In fact, it’s even more true, today.
Being a normal person is only way to find love at this point, as anyone whose fallen prey to the programming, will be too messed up to maintain a relationship. You have to be “regular” and find “regular”. This is what works! Romantic Love Is A Psy-op.
I think I can prove this to you, sort of. I can give you something to think about, anyway.
Consider the fact, when a people lie, their body gives clues. If you say you like someone and you don’t, your face will betray you.
I’m thinking this is your internal intelligence, communicating. You should feel that lie, as it leaves your mouth. It’s your own heart, pinging you. Has nothing to do with what tiktok or manosphere told you to do. It’s INTERNAL.
Your internal intelligence communicates with mine as well. Let’s say we’re on a first date. I see that lie.
Now what happens? Do I set aside my natural knowledge? Or so I set aside a person who is lying to me on our first date? Can you see my fate is in my own hands here?
If you put on an act, you have to put on an act! The programming has everyone trying to be some kind of character; adopt a persona to get attention. If you follow suit, you may as well forget about real, actual love. The person attracted to you will be after your facade or the veneer you put out there. Don’t dare show your wholeness, you know?
People try to pressure me to put on an act, all the time. Don’t say this, don’t say that, don’t say it at that way or at that time. I will consider what you say, but if it goes against my innards, I’m sorry, but I have a commitment.
I made this commitment, many years ago, at a low point. I was really in darkness, when I took some good advice, and looked at myself in the mirror to make this solemn promise: “I will not forsake you.”
I hope someone reads this and makes a point of teaching their children to be true to themselves. Their real selves, as shown by their body language and on that, I’ll give you an example.
I used to go the mass with my son, just the two of us. He was about eleven when I noticed, every time someone walked by, holding a baby, my son would track them. He’s followed them with his eyes. I saw him do this several times. “You want one of those, don’t you?” I asked.
“A baby?”
“Yes.”
“Yes, I’d like to have a baby. They’re cool.”
“Okay, we’ll you’re going to need a woman for that and you will need to be able to pay for your family, so stick with your school and I don’t think you’ll have any problem getting what you want.”
Two things came from this. First, my son became an engineer. Second, at twenty-four, counter-culture for his generation, he told his girlfriend, straight up, he wanted to be married and have a family. No manosphere psy-op can get to him, because he’s knows who he is.
Help your kids with this. Help yourself as well.
It’s tragic to use astrology to disable yourself with fear and so-called chart problems, rather to truly understand yourself. My son has a sun Saturn conjunction in Taurus, with a Libra moon. A father in love? Just think of all the content out there, turning him against women and procreation, trying to mold his values.
It’s terrifyingly sad.
How often do you go against your internals? Have you checked in with yourself, lately? YOUR internal values?