Saturn sashays into Aries, and suddenly “landing a man” sounds less like a cheesy dating ad and more like cosmic homework. I mean, Saturn’s all about structure and reality checks, while Aries—fiery, impulsive Aries—is squaring off against Venus-ruled Libra, the ultimate relationship referee. So, what gives? Are we ready to get serious about partnering, or just rehearse the same tired dance of pretend-love and glossy veneers? Here’s the kicker: real relationships should fuel your soul and your wallet (yes, money matters), not drain your energy or feed the never-ending cycle of “shop till you drop.” This transit begs a juicy question—if your love life were a Hollywood script, would you be the star, the stunt double, or just background noise? Time to ditch the circus acts and find a peer who’s not afraid to get their hands dirty building something real. Curious if your partner’s genuinely got your back, or just playing their part? Let’s dive deep and get real about the infamous Venus-Saturn combo. Buckle up—it’s about to get hardcore. LEARN MORE

When Saturn transits Aries, we’ll get serious about partnering again, as Aries opposes Venus-ruled Libra. The phrase, “land a man” comes to mind. Saturn (land) Aries/Mars (man). ha ha!
When it comes to partnering, I feel most all mainstream guidance is detrimental to a person. A good relationship strengthens and supports the individual. If a person’s needs are met, they shop less, so there’s your real (Saturn) motive (Mars). Money.
Cardinal signs are concerned with the structure of a person’s life. How you fare (Aries) is related to who you partner with (Libra). A partner can enhance you or drag you down. Surely, this something to pay attention to.
Both men and women are commonly socialized to be scheming. It dangerous to anyone who values their energy, which includes their time and money.
There’s also a lot of focus on sex and a person’s veneer. Well, we’re pretty much drowning in this stuff at this point. These things lose value when the market is saturated. It’s real love that’s so scarce.
If you opt to get real about partnering, it’s not a spokesmodel you want. Male or female, this is. You’ve got to be a person willing to live on the earth and do the work. With this accomplished, you can look for a peer. Someone else who’s managed to leave the circus to forge a real relationship. You can’t call veneer for help, when you find yourself in a ditch.
Saturn in Aries, on one level is about getting yourself together. See how that works? Get yourself together and then look at the person ‘cross from you (Libra). I’m thinking we need to do a workshop on this… desperately.
If you want to know if love is real, ask yourself if your partner is working on your behalf? I’m not talking about doing your bidding! Are they actively investing in you, in helping you, and also in helping you to be better person? Helping you raise your game? If so, you’ve got something real.
You also need to check yourself. Are you actively working on your partner’s behalf? If not, why not?
This is workshop on the Venus Saturn combo. It’s hardcore, because I’m not playing on this topic.
Where are you on the me/we axis, as Saturn heads into Aries. Are you optimistic about this? Or not so much?
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