When Your Squad Ghosts You: The Astrological Plot Twist Behind Family, Friends, and Spousal Fails You Didn’t See Coming
Added on August 13, 2025 inASTROLOGY CARDS
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Ever feel like life just dumps a dumpster fire right in your lap and then slaps you with the ultimate cosmic chuckle? Well, with the Venus-Pluto opposition looming on the horizon, it’s like the universe is tossing gasoline on the relationship drama bonfire. Picture this: you’re gasping for air, desperate for someone — anyone — to throw you a lifeline, but instead, you’re just left floundering while those closest to you seem to hold their breath. Sound familiar? It’s the kinda heartache that makes you wanna scream, “I’m outta here!” but hang on a minute — what if the ‘she’ you’re blaming was swimming through the same storm? There’s something about the way harsh Uranus transits rattle even the ‘weirdo’ couples who actually adore each other, proving that sometimes, the toughest storms don’t mean the ship’s sinking, just that it’s time to rethink your course. So before you hit the eject button on a relationship that means the world, maybe give it a second — or a minute — because, buddy, permanency is for tattoos, not tempers. Intrigued? Dive deeper if you dare, but don’t say I didn’t warn ya: love and chaos do dance a fierce tango when the stars commandeer the floor. LEARN MORE
This is not a new topic for me, but I think I should have a fresh run at it, with the Venus Pluto opposition, impending. For at least some of us, there are times when life seems impossible. It’s trash and you want someone to fix it or to help you in some way. You want to be comforted.
Hopefully, the people in your life respond to you, but more and more, this is not what happens. It could be because you’re isolated, but more often, there are people in your life. People in your house, even, and they leave you there, drowning, it seems.
It hurts. It makes you mad. In many case, the person under pressure will act against the person failing them. Divorce (or other forms of amputation) is the nuclear option. If you don’t address what’s underlying or what’s being misdirected, you’ll wind up there, eventually. “She did this! I’m outa here!”
Later, you may or may not realize, “she” was drowning too. Or “she” did respond, but you would not take sound advice, preferring the spin-out option, for reasons you did not understand at the time. Mea culpa!
When you do this, you lose not only your past, but your future with that person. If you’re stubborn, then all good. You’re never wrong. But if you’re the type to reflect, it’s a matter of time before you realize what you lost when you chose a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Sacrificed a friend or lover in lieu of dealing with something that may very well have been something that was (primarily) yours to deal with.
There’s more on this topic here:
Avoiding Divorce By Dealing With Challenge In Your Relationship
This comes about today, because I worked with a client, last night. She’s a weirdo married to a weirdo, which is fine. They love each other but they are both having HARDCORE Uranus transits. You can easily picture being in the house with these two. Both lives are off the rails. But does this mean they’re not suited to each other? We don’t know.
They can divorce this very instant; it won’t stop Uranus. It will not settle their lives, with a transit of this magnitude! Instead, take some space and see how it shakes out?
Togetherness is toxic, for now. Long term, who knows? Love is hard to find, especially when you are a weirdo, which is all of us at this point. I can tell you this: crises like often strengthen relationships as the parties come to better understand… all kinds of things. And then it’s total relief you didn’t, “throw mama from the train”!
If you’re in the habit of tossing important people in you life; people who have stuck with you and served and shared with you for years, I’d break that habit. This is coming from someone who has lost a number of these type connections, recently, through death or disability. Hack today, and lose the twenty years you could have had that person in your life. Or just give yourself a minute, which provides the other with minute of their own.
Many times, a minute is all it takes for the lights to go on.
photo credit – lanier67
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