In a world where Venus is doing its cosmic dance and love is overflowing like coffee on a Monday morning, relationships can sometimes feel like a delicate waltz—beautiful but occasionally bumpy. Imagine this: You’re in the middle of a heartfelt chat with your partner, and it’s as if you’re trying to navigate a minefield of emotions. So how do you keep the peace while also standing your ground? Well, Benny’s got some thoughts on that! He believes that keeping conversations cool, calm, and collected is the key to maintaining harmony, and guess what? A simple touch—like holding hands or a warm embrace—can work wonders when things start to heat up. And let’s be honest, who doesn’t love a good hug? Benny’s approach is all about gentle communication infused with a sprinkle of affection. So, if you’re ready to learn how to tackle those pesky discussions without turning into a cosmic disaster, you’re in the right place. Buckle up, folks—let’s dive into navigating tough conversations with love and grace! For more insightful tips from Benny, LEARN MORE.
Benny added, “I’m gonna try to calm it down ’cause why do I want to be in that situation where we’re both upset about something?” That doesn’t mean he doesn’t stand his ground. “I think you listen, and you say like — okay, sometimes, I’ll say, ‘Let’s not let it get there. Let’s just talk about this.'”
Noting that physical touch is also “very big” to him, Benny shared that sometimes a gentle “hand helps” in navigating tough conversations, too. “Just holding their hand while you’re telling them, or giving them a hug while you’re telling them and let them talk it out first and then after they talk it out be like, ‘Okay well, here’s what I think,’ and you can work through these things together in such an easy way,” he shared.