Have you ever watched a couple’s story unfold and thought, “Wow, what’s really going on behind the glitz and glam?” Enter Sofia Vergara and Joe Manganiello—a duo that had us swooning with their charming romance, only to end things in a way that’s got everyone scratching their heads. In a recent interview, Sofia shared her thoughts on their split, which was pretty much catapulted into the spotlight when Joe pushed back against her comments. Here we have one of Hollywood’s beloved stars navigating the awkwardness of ex-spouse proclamations, all while revealing her stance on motherhood and relationships. It’s a tale of love, loss, and, of course, the kind of drama that only the entertainment world can provide! So, grab your popcorn—this is a deep dive into the fascinating dynamics of their relationship, where not all is as it seems!
Sof?a Vergara isn’t going to fight Joe Manganiello on his perspective about the end of their marriage. The Modern Family star, 52, shared a measured response in a new Variety profile after her ex-husband recently claimed that her reasoning for their divorce was “not true.”
Vergara had publicly shared that she and the Magic Mike star, 47, divorced in July 2023 because she didn’t want to be an “old mom” and have more children, a perspective Manganiello denied to Men’s Journal last month as “simply not true.”
Despite the difference in narrative, the America’s Got Talent judge told Variety she isn’t weighing in definitively. “At the end of the day, you never even know if that’s what he said for real,” she explained in a profile published Aug. 14. “I’ve read a lot of things that I’ve said that I’m like, ‘Huh?’ What am I gonna do, call him? I don’t know if he even said that.”
However, Vergara stands by her perspective and called sharing the disagreement over children in her marriage “empowering.” The Griselda actress, who has a 32-year-old son, Manolo, from her previous marriage to Joe Gonzalez, previously told El Pas in January that her marriage “broke up because my husband was younger; he wanted to have kids and I didn’t want to be an old mom.”
“I feel it’s not fair to the baby. I respect whoever does it, but that’s not for me anymore,” she continued, noting that she “had a son at 19, who is now 32, and I’m ready to be a grandmother, not a mother. So, if love comes along, he has to come with [his own] children.”
In response, Manganiello told Men’s Journal that there had been “a lot said in the press about me wanting a family.” The Deal or No Deal Island host claimed that he and Vergara “did try to have a family for the first year and a half” of their marriage and that he had told her early on in their relationship, “If you’re done with kids, then I understand. Just tell me, and I’ll know what this is, and that’s OK,” but “that wasn’t the case.”
Manganiello continued that it’s been frustrating “to be painted as if I had some sort of midlife crisis, and after nine years, turned to somebody and gave them an ultimatum of, ‘Do this potentially unhealthy thing to your body, or else I’m gone’? That’s never who I was.”
Manganiello has hinted at having kids in the future with girlfriend Caitlin O’Connor, however. “It’s something that’s definitely on the docket,” he said on the Podcrushed podcast last month. “At some point.”