So here we are, folks, diving into the vibrant world of JoJo Siwa, who, like the rest of us, is on a never-ending journey of self-discovery but with a dash of reality TV drama! Can you imagine finding yourself on Celebrity Big Brother UK and then BAM, you’re like, “Uh-oh, I might be in the wrong category of the human experience”? That’s exactly what happened when JoJo got called into the Diary Room with Chris Hughes after their little rule-breaking escapade. She’s there spilling the tea, not just on the rule-breaking, but on her feelings about her own gender identity:
“Let’s put it this way… Oh my God, this is a lot…” she says, and then the tears start flowing because this isn’t just about flirting in code; this is about identity, the kind of stuff that makes you go, “Who am I really?”
And here’s where it gets interesting, especially given the Capricorns are having their annual “what does this all mean?” moment, with Saturn possibly shaking things up for personal growth. JoJo, amidst this emotional rollercoaster, finds solace in realizing that maybe, just maybe, “love them, love them,” doesn’t quite box her into the traditional labels we’ve been taught.
Fast forward, and she’s chatting with Danny Beard, the fabulous drag performer. Suddenly, the revelation hits her like a glitter bomb:
“Oh, I’m not a lesbian, I’m queer,” she says to Danny. “I feel… like, so queer. Like, how atmospheric conditions can randomly shift today with Mercury opposing Neptune, I’m switching letters!”
Isn’t that just the vibe these days? Everyone’s redefining themselves, and who better to lead the charge than someone who’s spent their life in the spotlight?
Now, let’s chat about what does 'queer' mean anyway? Historically, this term was tossed around like a hot potato, mainly as an insult. But oh how times have changed! Queer folks reclaimed this label, turning it into a banner of inclusivity, fluidity, and beyond-the-binary brilliance. It’s like when you decide to whip out your Scorpio rising vibe and embrace the deeper, often misunderstood parts of your identity.
JoJo’s not alone in this shift. Her journey reflects a broader societal trend where the once-rigid labels of sexuality are giving way to more fluid and expansive definitions. Just as the stars realign in the skies, people are realigning their own definitions of self. And in the land of the queer, JoJo is finding her tribe, her community, where there’s no need to fit into a box—especially not when those boxes are literally made of glitter and rainbows.
So, here’s to JoJo Siwa, for navigating the murky waters of identity amidst the chaos of reality TV, coming out more in tune with herself than ever. And let’s not forget, with that kind of astrology influencing her journey, she’s right on time in the cosmic sense, exploring her universe both external and internal.
And remember, folks, whether you’re grappling with your own identity or just watching from the sidelines, we’re all on this ride together. It’s okay to change your direction, your label, or your playlist—it’s all part of the great human playlist we’re all jamming out to.
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JoJo Siwa discussed her gender and picked a more accurate sexuality label.
Who says that reality TV is no place for self-discovery?
The singer’s foray into adult reality stardom has come with some bumps along the way. Mostly some vileness from Mickey Rourke.
On a more positive note, JoJo had an earnest discussion of gender and her sexuality label. And she realized that “lesbian” is not the best description for who she is.
On Celebrity Big Brother UK, JoJo Siwa and Chris Hughes received a summons to the Diary Room. The two had broken the rules by communicating in code, and had to explain it to Big Brother.
“It’s something that I’m not ready, necessarily, to be open about or upfront about, but it has to do with gender and how do I feel,” JoJo answered. “Let’s put it this way… Oh my god, this is a lot…”
She ended up in tears, with Chris offering comfort. JoJo then described: “Essentially, you have female, you have male. I’ve met a lot of females, love them, don’t feel like them. Met a lot of males, love them, definitely not them.”
“Met a lot of people in my life that are nonbinary, and these beautiful nonbinary people are who I feel the most like,” JoJo continued.
“And … I don’t know, it’s not something I want to say about myself yet,” she admitted. “But it’s something that is confusing and that’s probably why we were talking about it last night.”
JoJo concluded: “It’s important to be honest, and I think it’s important to also show that it’s OK to not know.” She’s absolutely right. Gender is a social construct, and finding the right label for yourself is pretty complex.
The CBBUK livestream also showed JoJo Siwa opening up with Danny Beard, a drag performer.
“I feel, like, so queer, do you know what I mean? I think that’s the thing, I’ve always told myself I’m a lesbian, and I think being here I’ve realized:
‘Oh, I’m not a lesbian, I’m queer,’ and I think that’s really cool,” she shared.
“I’m switching letters!” JoJo then joked, referring to the LGBTQ+ acronym.
OH MY GOD!! JOJO JUST SAID SHE’S NOT A LESBIAN AND BEING IN THE HOUSE HAS HELPED HER REALIZE THAT?! WOAH!! 🙊🙊 #CBBLive #CBBUK pic.twitter.com/vaatBuSaBz
— Siobhan 🇬🇬 (@slinehan1) April 22, 2025
Danny, who is also queer, joked: “And you know that British people love a queue!”
(Notably, the UK has seen catastrophic political pushback against the LGBTQ+ community in recent years, including the specific targeting of the transgender community)
After the horrific homophobia and sexual harassment perpetrated by disgraced former Housemate Mickey Rourke, it’s good to see JoJo bonding with others and expressing herself.
Some sexuality labels have complex histories. “Lesbian” ultimately refers to the ancient Greek poet, Sappho — who also inspired the “sapphic” label.
In fact, some labels were assigned to members of the LGBTQ+ community, especially in times when human sexuality — unless you were heterosexual and cisgender — was medicalized.
“Queer,” which originally meant “strange” or “eccentric,” was a term used within the gay community as far back as the 1800s. Over time, the label became a slur that bigots hurled at their victims.
Then, through decades of effort, the label was reclaimed.
JoJo is far from the only person to realize that “queer” is a more accurate (and broader) personal sexuality label.
Some might ask why she would not simply use a label like bisexual or pansexual, since her partner is nonbinary.
She could, though both labels would lead most to assume that she is also attracted to men, which is not necessarily the case.
But also? People should always use whichever label they feel best describes them.
Sexuality labels are imperfect and often fall short of describing the sum of what it means to be a person, but they can also provide a powerful sense of community. And finding the right label can be a lifelong journey.