Is Your Shack Man a Cosmic Con or a Hidden Gem of Happiness?
Added on April 23, 2025 inASTROLOGY CARDS
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You know, every so often you come across a character in your life that’s like, well, a monumental bastard. But the question ain’t just about the hardship, it’s about the silver lining. Shack Man—he was exactly that, but look at what we can learn from these daily transits today, for instance, Jupiter is painting our sky with luck and expansion. So, here’s the deal: amidst the tumult and the struggle, is there actually a positive you can take forward from such an experience? Think about that as we dive into an experience that was both a whirlwind and a whirlwind of lessons.
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“Shack Man was a monumental bastard, but I’m curious if your experience with him left any positive effects that you were able to carry forward?”
Plutolover
Thanks for the question! I benefitted greatly from my relationship with Shack, primarily on the “expansion” front! Prior to this relationship, I had no earthly idea how I was viewed by others. Exotic piece of ass? Who knew?
I also put myself in his hands, fully, which was new for me at that time. Ask any man I’ve ever known. I WILL FIGHT YOU! He was able to make me feel completely safe and cared for. This was new to me and no small thing! I trusted him fully, which was a first for me.
I developed patience and appreciation for sibling relationships and the family bond, in general, due to this relationship. It was the first experience I had, where the love I had, spread (as it should, in my case). I’m talking about loving someone and their child by extension. Loving your friend and their spouse or their parent, by extension. In this case, I loved, Shack and loved his brother, naturally.
I also learned, I was capable of committing and being married for life, via this relationship. At one point, my sister mentioned, I knew how to be married. She was right, and this was another revelation to me. On some level, I think we failed, because he did not know how to be married… such as, talk to your spouse about what you’re thinking and feeling and going through. He has clue none on that front!
I learned what a serious character I am in a circumstance like this. I put my money where my mouth is…and take my chance! I was living, Van Morrison. This was conscious, in the moment.
“…I’m gonna lay my cards just right down on the table
And spin the wheel and roll the dice
And whatever way it comes out
And whatever way it turns out
Baby you know, well, that’s the price
Well I’ll order again there’s no need to explain
I just need somewhere to dump all my negativity
But baby remember you make me feel so free..”
I learned how important, fairness and doing right by someone is to me. I would have endured any pain, not to cause him harm. It’s just a fact.
It could be argued, my freakout in the end, was in his best interest. Yes, it’s got me free, but it also stopped him from causing harm and digging himself in any deeper. It also provided him with evidence I was “crazy”, if he chose to take it that way. Like maybe he could leverage that to get his brother back?
I knew I was cutting my own throat when I did that, as far as my cool card, went. It was a conscious sacrifice, in part, as I was mere days away from walking away, clean.
I also learned A LOT of astrology. You can read until you’re blue. That is not the same is having someone love you, than not, in real life. I learned all the Saturn Neptune stuff, I’ve written about for years, from this relationship. Also, Neptune conjunct the midheaven. I have lived this.
Because my sister had the same transit (but does not have Venus square Neptune), I came to clearly understand how the same transit plays differently, depending on the individual.
The different perspectives were also instructive. For example, the Italian’s point of view. That was good for me to encounter. I also learned a lot about Jupiter, riding around in that station wagon. That would not have suited a lot of people, but I had a great time. I loved splitting my time, between being a child and an adult.
I benefitted, greatly, from, Shack’s brother, who set a wonderful example of how one might live with a humor and a high standard. I loved that guy so much. He ripped my heart right out my chest, when he walked out that door. I did not think I would ever meet anyone like him and again, and this has been case, to date. It’s weird and interesting, how people find their own level.
The relationship made me want a family, even more, because I could see the glory of it, quite frankly. I thought , Shack, would have been a wonderful father, had he chosen that path. I learned how important it is to make life choices, carefully, because by God, you will have to live with the consequences.
I wasn’t one to undermine another person or talk behind their back, anyway, but this relationships cemented my position on this. I “show my hands” in all my dealings. I can’t say people believe my hands, but I do show them. For example, I do this in my consultations, as a matter of routine. “I’m saying this, for this reason, hoping it helps you in this way.” Beyond that, pray!
Bottom line, if I had this to do over again, I would, with no hesitation. Not that I would recommend it to anyone else! I just like to understand the world, myself and the people around me. This experience knocked the ball out of the park on that level.
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