Farrah Abraham Drops the "Bad Mother Wound" Bomb—Is This the Secret Sauce Behind Her Wildest Adult Fails?
Added on September 24, 2025 inCelebrity News Cards, Entertainment News Cards
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Ever wonder if the stars have a say in how family drama unfolds? Well, as Mercury dances retrograde (yes, again), Farrah Abraham decides to pull back the curtain on her tumultuous past — and it’s all about mom, mom, mom. Farrah’s opening up about how her infamous 2013 sex tape wasn’t just some scandalous stunt but a desperate cry for love and validation — something she says was MIA from her mother, Debra Danielsen. Now, that’s some heavy cosmic baggage to unpack on a day when communication is famously messy. So, buckle up as we dive into Farrah’s raw reflections on heartbreak, family wounds, and why cutting toxic ties might just be the healthiest move under these chaotic skies. LEARN MORE
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Farrah Abraham is ready to accept that the blame for her adult choices falls on one pair of shoulders.
Those shoulders belong to mom Debra Danielsen, of course.
A longtime fan of lashing out and making regrettable choices, she’s now saying that her 2013 sex tape was a cry for help.
According to Farrah, she was looking for comfort and love and support. Since her mom wasn’t doing that, Farrah filmed her infamous “backdoor” video.
A&E’s docuseries, Secrets of Celebrity Sex Tapes, might not immediately bring someone like Farrah Abraham to mind.
In general, a “celebrity sex tape” refers to a private video that later leaks to the public.
Sometimes a third party or disgruntled ex sells footage that should never have become public.
The Teen Mom alum has done online sex work in the form of cam shows. Before that, in 2013, she filmed Backdoor Teen Mom with now-disgraced adult film star James Deen.
That’s a little like featuring a garage sale on a docuseries about burglaries.
However, Farrah was obviously happy to ramble for A&E. Similarly, she opened up to E! News.
She admitted (after years of pretending that the tape leaked) that the video was not actually a private shoot that accidentally went public.
Farrah also claimed that the intention was to get her some love and connection years after the death of boyfriend Derek Underwood.
Because she certainly wasn’t getting love from mom Debra Danielsen.
“It definitely was a time when I was young,” Farrah Abraham lamented.
She correctly described how “no one was really looking out for me.”
Farrah characterized: “I had a really bad mother wound.”
Fortunately, Farrah does not mean that as a euphemism. She instead means emotional trauma caused by her mother.
“I had a really bad complex with my mom not being the mom that I needed,” she explained.
It is clear that Danielsen failed her daughter in many, many ways.
Farrah seems to feel that this particular sex tape was a mistake and a result of those failures. She also seems to not be trashing sex work in general, which is kind of refreshing.
“You see, hey, what are these patterns that I’ve allowed in my life with people?” Farrah described in Secrets of Celebrity Sex Tapes.
“And number one was giving my love for protection and I never got protection from anyone in my life,” she insisted.
“So that’s why you really don’t see anyone in my life of the past,” Farrah explained.
“Because they did not serve something that I definitely need, which is a safe space.”
Everyone, including Farrah, has a right to cut off toxic figures from their lives. How many have done the same to Farrah? Would she ever understand why?
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