So here we are again, sifting through the cosmic chaos of Nick Cannon’s latest parenting hot take—because, honestly, with a Leo Sun blazing confidence in the mix, you’d expect nothing less than a fiery debate. The “Drumline” star and father of a dozen dropped jaws (and shared some serious eyebrow raises) on his “We Playin Spades” podcast when he declared he wants his sons to learn how to throw hands—and, get this, even to be a “bully” rather than a pushover. Now, while stars like Cannon often shine bright with bold ideas, today’s Aries moon invites us to challenge such fierce opinions: Is tough love really teaching strength, or just stirring up unnecessary storms? Social media blasted his controversial view as folks wondered if there’s room for kindness in this warrior’s code. Dive in as we unpack Cannon’s combustible convo, the online backlash, and how the cosmos might be nudging us to rethink what it truly means to raise confident kids. LEARN MORE.
Nick Cannon has sparked outrage once again with an unconventional parenting take. The actor, best known for his roles in “Drumline” and the hit TV show “Wild N Out,” recently had an intense conversation on his podcast, “We Playin Spades,” with his co-host and one of his baby’s mothers, Bre Tiesi, about how children, especially young boys, should be raised. During the conversation, Cannon shared that he’d prefer his sons know how to fight, or even be a “bully,” rather than be bullied. While his statements were met with some understanding around the podcast table, social media users didn’t agree at all, wasting no time calling the father of 12 out for promoting harmful takes.
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On the most recent “We Playin Spades” podcast episode, Cannon spoke with one of his baby’s mothers, Tiesi, about the last time she got “her a-s whooped.”
She joked with Cannon that her last physical altercation was with their young son, Legendary Love.
Cannon laughed with the rest of the table before sharing that he’s told his son he can only hit boys—a statement Tiesi rejected.
As he went on, Cannon said he shared this framework with his son just in case another boy ever tests him.
“Nah, you gotta throw hands,” he said.
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Elsewhere in the conversation, one of Cannon’s podcast guests explained that they don’t condone fighting, to which Cannon replied, “But you gotta teach your child how to defend themselves. Girls and boys.”
Later, Cannon argued that there’s an undeniable level of confidence that rises in a man when he knows how to fight, which is what he wants to pass on to his son.
“Knowing how to throw your hands [as a man] will help you in life,” he said.
He didn’t stop there, though. Cannon finished, “I’d rather raise a bully than my child to be bullied.”
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It didn’t take long for Cannon’s words to start circulating on the internet, sparking intense conversations and reactions from users about the message he’s spreading to his 12 children.
“D-mn, why not just raise your kid to be kind, but also to stand up for themselves when need be?” someone asked.
Another user clearly agreed, saying they’d “never want to raise a bully” before noting the difference between “the bully and bullied.”
“Let’s just all try to raise decent and kind humans,” they added.
A third user didn’t even seem to take Cannon’s take seriously, writing, “Even with all the children he has, I wouldn’t take advice from this man on how to parent.”
Someone else shared a similar statement, encouraging social media users not to “let celebrities raise your kids.”
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Cannon’s son, Legendary, is just one of 12 children the actor has with six different women.
As previously reported by The Blast, Cannon has shared controversial parenting takes before, which have also landed him in the hot seat.
In August 2025, he faced criticism from fans after admitting he doesn’t want his daughters to date “people like their dad.”
“When you have five daughters and you’re like, ‘All right, I at least want to be able to be true and honest,’ but like I can’t live the same life that I’ve always been living and attempt to right my wrongs in that sense of where like hopefully my daughters learn from my mistakes and not date people like their dad,” he said.
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A month after that, Cannon got extremely candid about how he ended up with 12 children, admitting it happened due to his negligence.
“It wasn’t like I was acting out. It was more of being careless, being frivolous with my process because I could do it, because I had the money [and] because I had the access to whoever and however I wanted to move,” he said. “Then, obviously, life happens as well, so it wasn’t like ‘Oh, I’m gonna go have 12 kids.’ It was more about like, ‘Yo, I’m gonna just live life and have fun and whatever happens happens. I can handle it.'”
As he went on, Cannon noted that his life would likely look different today had he worked on himself prior to becoming a parent. “Now, you’re leaving trauma every step of the way instead of fixing it from its origin,” he said.
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