Ever feel like your online life is that one friend who can’t decide if it wants to ghost you or stick around for the drama? With the Moon hanging out in Gemini today, juggling communication and secrets feels extra spicy — almost like the universe is nudging us to ask: How much should we really air out our personal business on the digital stage? This article dives into the delicate dance of sharing just enough without turning your situationship saga into yesterday’s tabloid fodder. Spoiler alert: it’s less about “Who texted last?” and more about unpacking why a ghosting sting actually pinches your pride. And honestly, isn’t it way more fascinating to riff on why 80s movies pretended cellulite didn’t exist than to recap your dating misadventures? Let’s get real about what stories deserve scrolling and which ones should just simmer quietly on the back burner. LEARN MORE
Do you find it difficult to balance having certain parts of your life online and kind of accessible in that way, and keeping certain things for yourself? What is your experience of keeping that balance?
Yeah, of course. I think if I make it so blatantly about my life, like specific events, it’s almost, like, selfish to me. It’s not about what I’ve learned, or looking back and sharing any wisdom or regrets. If I sit down and I’m like, “My situationship just ghosted me,” I feel like that’s not interesting. It might be interesting, of course, to see how somebody’s dealing with it and learning about their personal life, I’m not saying that’s not interesting. It just doesn’t do anything for me. It’s not inspiring to me. It’s not a conversation I want to have.
Instead, I would frame it as Why does it hurt? or, like, Why does it piss me the fuck off when I get ghosted? And the reality is, I’m like, Who are you to ghost me, you motherfucker? You know? Like, that’s how I feel. I think that’s a more interesting conversation than like, “He hasn’t texted me, she hasn’t texted me, whatever, in, like, two days, three days. What do I do?” That’s not something that is constructive. I want to keep conversations moving forward, and I want to maintain my comment section to be people sharing, not people being like, “Girl, this is so not it.” Judgment is gonna happen regardless, but I always love looking at my comment section and seeing people interacting with one another about things that they’ve also learned, or things that they’ve reflected on.
When it comes to sharing my personal life, I just don’t feel that things like, for example, my dating life are that interesting. I feel like there’s so much more to talk about. Like, I want to talk about the way we talked about women in the ’80s and ’90s. You know what I mean? I want to talk about why nobody in ’80s movies had cellulite. I want to talk about that versus, I don’t know, like, being someone’s girlfriend, you know?
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