How to Sniff Out a Serial Cheater Faster Than They Can Say “It’s Not What It Looks Like” — Psychology Spills the Tea!
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Ever get that creepy feeling your sweetheart might be auditioning for a role as a secret agent in the “Affair Chronicles”? Before you let your imagination run wilder than Mercury in retrograde, take a breath—and maybe check the stars. Sometimes our gut feelings are as reliable as a horoscope predicting your cat’s mood, but other times they hit the bullseye. Research even agrees: past infidelity can be a sneaky red flag flashing ahead. So, how do you spot a repeat romantic saboteur before they’ve even co-starred in your life for a week? Let’s just say, it’s less about catching them with the remote and more about decoding some subtle (and not-so-subtle) cues—like sudden spending sprees, mysterious overtime, or that makeover that screams “new audience.” If you’ve been scratching your head over your partner’s odd behavior lately, maybe the stars—and science—have a few telling clues for you. Ready to decode the cosmic signals and protect your heart from the plot twists? LEARN MORE.”
Do you suspect your love interest is having an affair? Don’t start making wild accusations just yet. Take a breath or two first. Even though you might have a gut feeling, these can be wrong. You don’t want to ruin a potentially good relationship because you were feeling insecure.
There are things to look for that indicate someone isn’t likely to be faithful. Cheating across relationships definitely happens, as a 2017 study stated, “prior infidelity emerged as an important risk factor for infidelity in next relationships.”
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Financial infidelity impacts relationships, according to research on love, lies, and money: “Romantic relationships are built on trust, but partners are not always honest about their financial behavior. They may hide spending, debt, and savings from one another.”
Are they spending more money than usual, and you don’t know where it’s going? If they are taking a significant amount of cash out of their account, it could be a gambling problem, or payment for hotel rooms and gifts for others.
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If they start acting differently toward you, for instance, a lack of phone calls and no interest in talking or spending time together, this could indicate an affair. Research on infidelity showed how paying more attention to attractive alternatives to a relationship, combined with low self-control, creates a situation ripe for cheating.
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Positive changes can be a reason to be suspicious, too. They might buy you flowers without reason because they’re feeling guilty. Try to question them about this sudden display of affection and see if they start to sweat under all that heat.
Too many late nights at work or business vacations without you are classic signs that someone may be having an affair. Next time they call and say they have to work late, offer to bring dinner to their office and see how they react.
Try to ask them about any coworkers they have and see if they suddenly can’t make eye contact with you.
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If your favorite couch potato has taken a new interest in fashion, grooming, and working out, they may be trying to impress another person. Of course, they might just be improving their lazy ways.
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The most accurate sign they are likely to cheat is your gut instinct, according to research in Frontiers in Neuroscience. If something just doesn’t feel quite right, you may have good reason to believe they are being unfaithful. If you generally are not a jealous person, your gut feeling could be right.
Now what? No matter how many signs of an affair you find, you must confront them about your feelings and suspicions. Cheaters usually don’t confess right away. You may be able to figure out what’s going on by their reaction, though.
Once you find out for sure that they are cheating, it’s up to you whether you want to fight to keep them or walk away. Try to have concrete proof, like text messages or photos, because it will make it harder for them to deny it.
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Kori Ellis is a freelance editor and writer. She has been published in dozens of magazines, newspapers, and websites worldwide.
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