“Unmasking the Deception: How Your iPhone Could Be the Key to a Hidden Manipulation Tactic!”
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In a world where our smartphones practically live in our pockets, it’s hard to ignore the seismic shift happening in the realm of dating and relationships. Remember the days when a simple phone call or an in-person chat sufficed? Now, we’ve traded those moments for long-winded text exchanges that can last weeks, sometimes even months, before we muster the courage to meet face-to-face. Isn’t it a bit ironic that with all this “connectivity,” we’ve built up a wall of anxiety around our genuine connections? In my recent conversation with a fellow writer, we delved into these evolving dynamics and uncovered some startling truths about how technology shapes our approach to love—or, should I say, our reluctance to embrace it wholeheartedly. So grab your phone, take a deep breath, and let’s rethink how a bit of face-to-face time can seriously change the game. LEARN MORE
The presence of technology and smartphones has impacted relationships and dating in new and different ways when it comes to improving our communication skills. Recently, I was interviewed by another writer where we discussed how relationships are approached today and the unspoken fear of meeting a potential partner, face-to-face.
When I was growing up, no one I knew had a cell phone that was carried around and used as one of life’s necessities, especially for meeting people or possibly dating. If we wanted to communicate with someone, we called them on the phone or met up in person. And, even with notes being written and passed along (I’m dating myself here), the mere thought of writing full-on conversations as a preferred method of communicating was unheard of.
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However, today’s approach to connecting with someone is entirely different. My children’s generation finds it more awkward to have a discussion or meeting face-to-face with a person of interest than to write multiple conversations in text, over the course of weeks and sometimes months with someone they just met. What?!?
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To me, that just seems absurd. If you’re in a relationship, why not just put your smartphone down and make a plan or date to meet up, hang out, or grab a bite?
It seems like such a waste of time to go back and forth for weeks and months when you could find out in the first 10 minutes if the relationship is even worth pursuing. As my friend and I continued to discuss why this might be, she touched on this simple truth that made complete sense.
As my friend and I continued to discuss why this might be, she touched on this simple truth that made complete sense.
Doing so provides them with a false sense of security and never requires them to pursue something or someone. Hmm … why take a risk on something when you can just be comfortable, all the time? Anyone can write the perfect words to say when they are intrigued by another. And yet, if disinterest sets in or when you have nothing left to say, you can just turn off your phone or even change your number!
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How easy is that? Too easy in my opinion. The best thing about building new and healthy relationships with others is the risk. The uncertainty of what’s to come is what makes it exciting. Every relationship doesn’t have to be approached as a win or lose. Rather, it should be looked at as an opportunity to find what you’re looking for and what you’re not.
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It’s important for children today to recognize the gains that are made from taking a risk and getting out of their comfort zones. Fearing a relationship might not work out isn’t a reason to hide behind the text.
Conversations are imperative and most times, need to be had. Putting the phones down and lifting our heads up, is when we can accurately assess a relationship worthy of our pursuit.
More facetime IRL offers opportunities to build courage, communicate well, and recognize the importance of communication and our spoken voice. It also fuels personal growth and a new level of confidence that could never be duplicated with even spell check.
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The desire to create a false sense of security with someone often stems from underlying anxieties, a need for control, or a history of inconsistent relationships. Individuals may seek to appear stable and trustworthy even when they might not feel that way internally, potentially using manipulation tactics to achieve this facade.
2016 research investigated how individuals perceive and interact with others. This includes the role of impression management and the creation of desired self-images, which can contribute to presenting a false sense of security.
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Amy Debrucque is an inspirational writer, encourager, survivor, and believer. She’s had articles published on ThriveGlobal, and ForEveryMom and was a guest speaker on The Love Offering Podcast.
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