Ever get hit with that gut punch when you realize the song you thought was about her — that mysterious lady haunting your dreams — was actually about a man? Yeah, me too. On July 4, 2012, under that sun-drenched Cancer sky, Frank Ocean dropped an emotional bombshell not just with his music but with a raw, open letter that peeled back every layer of his heartbreak. Lovers, secrets, and those star-crossed feelings mingled over two sultry summers when time didn’t just glide — it practically paused. You wonder if Mercury’s retrograde had a hand in this tangled dance of unspoken truths and unrequited love? Frank didn’t just confess his love; he redefined vulnerability in a world scrambling for it. Hold onto your heart — this isn’t your usual love ballad. LEARN MORE.
Fan interpretation: A love song about a woman he can’t get out of his mind.
Real meaning: A heartbreak song about a man he was in love with.
“I don’t have any secrets I need kept anymore,” Frank wrote in an open letter on Tumblr per Genius. “4 summers ago, I met somebody. I was 19 years old. He was, too. We spent that summer, and the summer after, together. Every day, almost. And on the days we were together, time would glide.”
On July 4, 2012, six days before he released his debut studio album channel ORANGE, Frank released an open letter on Tumblr where he came out about his sexuality. He detailed his first experience falling in love with a man after spending almost every day together for nearly two summers, only for those feelings to go unrequited.
“I sat there and told my friend how I felt,” he wrote. “I wept as the words left my mouth. I grieved for them, knowing I could never take them back for myself. He patted my back. He said kind things. He did his best, but he wouldn’t admit the same. He had to go back inside soon; it was late, and his girlfriend was waiting for him upstairs. He wouldn’t tell the truth about his feelings for me for another 3 years. I felt like I’d only imagined reciprocity for years. Now, imagine being thrown from a cliff. No, I wasn’t on a cliff. I was still in my car, telling myself it was gonna be fine and to take deep breaths. I took the breaths and carried on. I kept up a peculiar friendship with him because I couldn’t imagine keeping up my life without him. I struggled to master myself and my emotions.“
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